Jesus had a funny way of redefining community. He chose to associate with the "unclean" to the consternation of the "clean", he welcomed the unwelcome, he befriended the friendless, he identified with the alienated. In the gospels we read:
When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (Matthew 9:11-13)
In other words, for Jesus in was out and out was in. You're not an insider with God unless you're for outsiders with God. Consider your own community or social network. How does it compare to this? Are you up for a challenge? I think Jesus still has some surprises for us.